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\u201cIt\u2019s all about you, it\u2019s all about you, baby\u201d sang McFly in 2005. A great song by an iconic band although it\u2019s not something I\u2019d play during a massage. Decent massage music is the subject of a different letter of the alphabet on a different day. I\u2019ve had a few disasters with that but it\u2019s for another time. Today is Y and Y is for You. All about You. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Ever had someone ask you \u2018how was your week\u2019 and then, as you reply you realise they\u2019re not listening? Sure, they\u2019re looking at you, nodding and smiling. \u201cYeah…really, wow…yeah cool…\u201d – all the signs of listening are there… but somehow you sense they don\u2019t much care. They\u2019re not really engaged in your answer. You could say anything… \u201cyes it was lovely thanks, I had dinner with your wife then we danced naked around your front garden while the neighbours cheered\u201d …and they wouldn\u2019t hear a word you said. It\u2019s just a ruse they have to get you to ask the same question back so they can talk about themselves. Am I being unfair? Maybe, but we\u2019ve all been there I\u2019m sure. For some people it\u2019s always all about them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

What\u2019s this got to do with sensual massage? Fair question, here goes…. You\u2019d like a massage? Good, you\u2019re in the right place coming to see me. This isn\u2019t the take away joint downstairs (my studio is above a takeaway, maybe come and get a massage and work up an appetite for a Chinese?). But what\u2019s your motivation for it? What\u2019s driving you to visit today? There\u2019s lots of reasons why you\u2019d book a massage; curiosity about being with a guy, to try a new experience, to relax, to explore, to learn, to chat about sexy stuff, for physical contact….all sorts of things are working and they\u2019re all good reasons, I love them all. I try to understand why you\u2019re here, even if it is just because it\u2019s close to the takeaway, that\u2019s cool. Understanding helps me make sure I can help you have a great massage. Sometimes you tell me in detail – \u201cI like 12 long strokes down each leg, left one first, and the index finger of your right hand massaging my prostate for 37 seconds\u201d which is good although it\u2019s difficult to choreograph a sensual massage to that level…it\u2019s best to evolve rather than be quite so planned. But I do know that with requests like that that my client is anxious and likes to know the plan. I hope that often I can work it out without too many questions, it\u2019s good to simply feel where to go and what to do…it\u2019s a sensual massage after all. However sometimes I just ask \u201cso John, what are you looking for today?\u201d \u201cI\u2019m here to shoot my load Jamie\u201d. OK so I get a few smart arse clients …<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Whatever you are looking for, the one thing I try to do is make sure you feel is that it\u2019s all about you, and not in any way about me. It\u2019s your massage and by understanding why you\u2019re here and what you like I hope that as you lay on the table and wherever else the massage takes us…floor, shower, bed, Chinese takeaway..it is always your massage and your pleasure I\u2019m focused on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Unfortunately there are some masseurs who do make it about themselves. If you want a great sensual massage avoid those masseurs. It is possible to recognise the type. They\u2019ll watch themselves in the mirror a lot. They may have a long list of things they won\u2019t do. They might publicise the type of clients they\u2019d prefer not to book by using implied or direct language on their website. There\u2019s also those who make you feel like they\u2019re doing you a favour by booking with them. I do get massages myself (it\u2019s good for market research) and I\u2019ve experienced some of those masseurs. I wouldn\u2019t go back to them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you arrange a sensual massage it\u2019s definitely about You. It\u2019s your bit of \u2018me\u2019 time which everyone needs now and again. In that precious time you want someone who is totally focused on your enjoyment of the moment. In a sensual massage it\u2019s obvious to you if your masseur is not fully engaged and focused on your needs. They should be totally absorbed in your massage, focused intently on your body and your mind, noticing your breath, your heart rate, your energy, what makes your cock twitch. They\u2019d notice how your fingers flex when they run their nails across your shoulder, how your breathing slows when they massage your head, how your legs part as they draw their palms up your inner thighs. If they\u2019re just going through the motions then I\u2019m sure you\u2019ll know. In the same way it\u2019s very clear that your mate isn\u2019t listening in those \u2018how was your week\u2019 conversations it is also clear in a sensual massage that your sensual masseur isn\u2019t sensing. If that\u2019s the case then it isn\u2019t about you, it\u2019s probably about them. You may get a decent massage but it won\u2019t be a sensual massage. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tom Fletcher wrote the McFly song as an apology to his then girlfriend because he apparently forgot Valentines Day. I guess it worked because they subsequently married. A happy ending to that story! I\u2019m not looking for marriage (unless you\u2019re a millionaire of course…message me with details, I\u2019ll start the wedding arrangements) but I will do my best to make sure your massage is all about you…with a happy ending. We all like happy endings. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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